Dear M Girl,
I have a guy friend named Lewis, we hang out all the time and we've known each other for three years now. We can act ourselves around each other and sometimes I get these really good feelings. But other times I don't think that he feels the same way. And everyone that comes up to me asks if I like him and I have heard stuff about him liking me, but I don't know if it's true. What should I do?
It sounds like you are definitely very confused about how to move forward from being friends to being more. Think back on your friendship and try to remember the good times you've had. Has he always been there for you? Does he go to you when he's bummed? Lewis may be feeling just as confused, so invite him for ice cream at the park so that you two can talk about why you might be ready to take the next step in a relationship. Hear what he has to say, and be upfront about your confused feelings. Once you two spill your feelings to each other, you can take it from there. It might be hard, but don't focus on what you hear around the halls -- to avoid any more confusion, talk to him face to face!
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