Hey M Girls!
We have a BRAND NEW spin on the daily advice column on mmm-mag.com. Each day at 8:00 PM/EST we'll post a reader question and have our M Girl answer it!! Today, we're talking being to nervous to talk to your group of girlfriends!!
M Reader LOLHey asked:
I'm really shy around my own friends. I just stand there and listen whenever they're all talking. I want to give my 2 cents, but I don't know what to say. What should I do?
And M Girl's answer is:
"I totally understand where you're coming from -- I used the have the exact same problem. I used to feel nervous about what I would say. And when I did talk within the group, I felt like no one was listening to me. But as I grew older, I learned to work through my insecurities and I started to feel more comfortable in my own skin. And that's when I started becoming more and more outgoing. So that's the key. You need to build your self-confidence level and feel more secure about yourself. After that, nothing else will seem like a huge deal -- and you'll totally feel comfortable enough to say exactly what you think in front of your friends. Just know that they love you for who you are, so don't be afraid to be yourself!"
Don't forget to check back here tomorrow for more advice. And if you've got a question you want M Girl to help with click here to submit it!
I can be sometimes like that. Or sometimes when my friends say something, I say "that's what I was going to say!", when clearly that was not what i was going to say; I was just thinking it.
good advice
I need advice-
Recently in school we all got new classes and my only friend that I knew in my class got transfered out to a different class & I'm by myself. I want to go try and make new friends so I wont be alone in gym class but im nervous.normally im not shy but this time i dont know why!!how do i approach someone to ask to play with one another? :/
i am justim bibers biggest fan i want to go out with he i love you justin!!!!!!!!!
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Im the same way but its hard for me to have confidence..
I SOMETIMES FEEL THAT WAY TO BUT U KNOW I HAVE ANGER ISSUES AND WELL U KNOW WHAT HAPPENS WHEN SOMEONE HAS THAT PROBLEM.........................
i need help!!
Me and my bf are going out for the fifth time!! I just want to know if he likes me or if he just asked me out again because he wants a girlfriend. PLease helpp
I was going to try and do something much like this a lttle bit back, but I was just unable to complete. It truly is really nice reading about your experience.
i need some advice....
i like this one guy but hes 2 years older then me. we r friends but he likes another girl but he acts like he likes me what do i do???
oh, I know exactly how you feel! with my friends I always feel like I am the second choice and if I don't say the right thing or something that will make them laugh, they will just sort of trow me away. But, I have come to learn that friends are better than that and if they really are a true friend, they don't care what you say or what you don't say. So I have learned to speak up and just say what my heart feels like saying. And I am never afraid to speak my mind to my best friends!!!!! good luck girl!!=)