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We have a BRAND NEW celeb advice column on mmm-mag.com. Each day at 8:00 PM/EST we'll post a reader question and have a different star answer it!! Today, we have Sonny with a Chance's Tiffany Thornton talking about how to deal with people spreading rumors and gossiping!
M Reader DemiLovatoLuver8 asked:
My BFF of 6 years has been gossiping and spreading rumors non-stop and I can't stand it anymore! She ignores me all the time and if she does talk to me, she's really mean. She knows I've been bullied before and I'm super sensitive about it but she does it to me now! She doesn't understand me and doesn't even try to make time for our friendship. To top it all off, my other friends are hanging out with her even though they know what she's doing to me. I feel so left out and alone. What do I do?
And Tiffany's answer is:
"I think a lot of times people judge others out of their own insecurities and it's hard to deal with their judgments. But instead of being angry at those people I think you just need to realize that it's sad for them to feel the need to speak badly about you or anyone else. It usually means there's something inside of themselves that they don't want to confront so they feel the need to point out the flaws in other people. When you're happy with yourself deep down, you have more of a positive outlook. But when you're not happy with yourself, you have a negative outlook on other people. So try to ignore them and hope that those people find a different kind of happiness in their lives!"
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Supposedly my 'bff' says that we were going to go see New Moon on friday together-the day it comes out. But yesterday she canceled on me out of the blue. I'm really mad at her and she's not even considered my bff anymore because bff's don't do that. So any advice?
THANKS!
And if you can, can u get either taylor lautner, miley cyrus, or kristen stewart to answer my question?
I dont really like Tiffany thorton and that wasnt really good advice (no offense)
and twilight saga taylor lautner lvr 1 just because your bff canceled on you once dosent mean shes not your friend any more. I mean geeze you dont hate someone just for not going to the movies with you. Maybe she has a reason. And thats not where you submit your question and ou shouldnt ask to have a certain sta answer your question BTW
I feel friendless at school. When ever I talk to one of my best friends, she just gives me this look that makes me feel very sad. She doesn't even laugh at the stuff that she used to laugh at last year, like an inside joke. When I ask her about homework, and if she was finished she'll say "Yeah it was easy." and just gives me a "You should have known what to do and you should have finished it by now" look. It makes me angry and sad. What should I do?
I was on this cruise ship last Aprill and there was this kid I had a huge crush on. The problem is that he lives in Canada. Now the cruise is over and I dont have his phone number, or address.I am really depressed and I feel like I always will be. What do I do?
Oh my gosh! Thanks for posting my question! Also, thanks Tiffany for the advice, it helped a lot!
*Liv* =D
ive had a crush on this guy since the fourth grade that i really like now. everytime i was thinking about asking him out he was dating some other girl. when he broke up with elizabeth i was really happy but the next day my bff asked him out and he said yes!! i decided to wait until they broke up to ask him out but im not sure if i should ask him out. im pretty sure ill get made fun of if i do.should i ask him out even though he dated my best friend if i really like him? or even if im to shy to ask him out?? wat should i do???
if taylor lautner could answer this that would be great but if he cant thats ok.
well u no wat ILoveKevinJonas21 it's not even any of ur buisness! and why r u critizing everyone? so jus shut up!