How do you beat the first date jitters? Let us know what calms your nerves when you're hanging out with a cutie!
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How do you beat the first date jitters? Let us know what calms your nerves when you're hanging out with a cutie!
i make up jokes?
A way to calm my nerves is to crack up a joke. It always lightens the mood and makes everything feel less akward. I also pretend like I'm talking to one of my friends. Just hanging out and talking.
I bring up funny stuff, and talk to him like he's my best friend, and we're hanging out. I try to avoid silence, it can make it very awkward. And sometimes when i'm nervous, I just laugh. I like to talk about stuff that I like, and find some common interests between us both. Basically, I just be myself!
Hay m Luvers
What i do is i dress up good and i make up jokes along with listening to my ipod with him which gets us totly close.
the guy that i like is really funny,so i just laugh at his jokes,play around with him,and just b myself around him,and he likes me the way i am.
a way i calm my nerves is talking to him about his family making him fell more comfertable around you because ur getting to know him and after that the conversation will turn itself if to a full date talking marathon about each other and it will go great like it always does for me
i would like just image u were in bubble gum land that helps me
just talk to him like a normal person hes not an alliean and if u go 2 a restraunt eat small
just talk to him like a normal person hes not an alliean and if u go 2 a restraunt eat small
ok, i remember on my 1st date, i couldnt b more nervous! we were goin 2 this place called the pizza cafe and i finally relized that i can just b myself and i'll b fine, and it worked!! =]
hay every body the m's magazine is alsome
On a frist date or if im just hanging out w/ my crush i'll just try and be myself no matter how nervous i may be all you can really be is yourself =]
I just joke around and talk about achool or something.
what makes me calm when i am with a guy i feel realy good about myself if i dont sweat and if my hair isnt messed up and greesy if i look godd
what makes me calm when i am with a guy i feel realy good about myself if i dont sweat and if my hair isnt messed up and greesy if i look good
i never been on a date but all i have 2 say is just be yourself. talk to him about school or some funny stories that has happen to you and im sure you will be alright . :,>
I just pretend nothing is wrong.(sometimes that doesn`t work 2 well!) Or i just tell him some jokes.
I just pretend nothing is wrong.(sometimes that doesn`t work 2 well!) Or i just tell him some jokes.
I just pretend nothing is wrong.(sometimes that doesn`t work 2 well!) Or i just tell him some jokes.
I just pretend nothing is wrong.(sometimes that doesn`t work 2 well!) Or i just tell him some jokes. ttyl,
rererox24
I just pretend nothing is wrong.(sometimes that doesn`t work 2 well!) Or i just tell him some jokes. ttyl,
rererox24
my mom is a teacher which makes me a teachers kid
my crushes dad is a teacher, making him a teachers kid...
So every day before (and sometimes after) school we hang out and ussually end up with like a lot of inside jokes or something, all my crushes have to be funny and someone that if we brake up than it won't be awkward, so dates are no problem because its really always super fun and we always have something to say.
Just think about the great time u will have 2gether.
well da way i wld calm my nerves is i wld talk to him like i usually do with my friends and thenlike make sum jokes up cuz i always need a good laugh
I would just be mysellf!
if u be more of a friend first then go on a day it will feel like you just hangin out with eachother.
After that go home and scream!
omg wow don't care...
JUST TALK TO HIM THEN THINGS WON'T FEEL SOOO AWKWARD!!!
i was really nervous and my plams were really sweating and it was at night and we were walking around and running away from the night watchmen and it was fun and we were talking to each other. then we found our friends and we started going every where even in the woods. and we went naydines house and we watched tv then fell asleep some where in the morning and one of my friends when home and naydines other friends came there and they starting teaseing us cause on my first date he found two more of his friends and i found two of my friends and my and my friends were going out with my crush's friends and it was weird and my friends dared me to kiss my crush so i made them t do that too.
never let your nerves get to you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:)if you do you mite start to feel sick so what i do is bite my finger it helps trust me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:)
most of you guys are right;;
aha , just be yourself and have fun with him.
talk with him and get comfortable with yourself& him [no tlking in his arms ;) ]
but like .. think like you guys are hanging out or do something that willmake you calm your nerves down .
ALWAYS REMEMBER : HE IS PROBABLY NERVOUS TOO!
I hope you guys take my advice & thanks for reading;
GOODLUCK&HAVEFUN!
All u have 2 do is simple. 4get u r on a date, & act like u r just hanging out! Imagine u r in recess or something. Just dont think he's judging u. Act normal!!! :)
wow omg that is hard .....ummm..umm
make up jokes.....
lolz!
ashley here!!
take this advice:
always remember:
1. its his first date 2
2. both of u r nervous (both of u wanna make a gud impression)
3. RELAX!!!...if sumthing embarrassing happens..laugh at it....make it an inside joke.
(dnt no wat 2 say { like in # 3?}.....say something like: "oops. {giv a lil laugh} well...guess that broke the ice...or at least i hope it did. {another laugh} ....guess now we have our own lil inside joke. {smile @ him}"....its simple....itll show ur nt 2 nervous & he will loosen up 2!)
-ashlerz {advice is simple....after u've been thru it}
I just kept it cool and low key just be your self
I just kept it cool and low key just be your self
I would just chill and have fun!
i had sex on my first date
i fart, catch it & than throw it in his face! :D
that ALWAYS works for me!
Whenever Im around my boyfriend,the number one rule is to be myself(: I never try to be someone Im not.It doesnt work.Just be yourself and people will like you for you.2nd:I always try to ask about how hes doing&how the activities he does is going and stuff like that.And lastly 3rd:I usually try to make a joke here or there&be sure to laugh at his jokes(: heres some things that you shouldn't do when youre around your crush..
1)Never be texting the whole date.This will make your boyfriend veryyy annoyed.
2)Dont be so shy that he has to like talk the whole time.
Now...Your guy is going to be nervous too.So take it easy.Relaxx&have fun.Its his first date too so just chill out and make sure to be yourself.
Hope you liked my advice(: Have fun&good luck(:
I really agree with Maddie ill never do that to my boyfriend never
I really agree with Maddie ill never do that to my boyfriend never
How i beat the first date jitters is look soooo good im soooo preety and rich and i dont get jitters my boy do but wen i look fine (like i always do) he just gives me stuff and treat me like a queen (all the boys do)
Heather your a slu! if u had it on the first date ewwww
When your on you first date witht he crush, just be yourselfff! Because when he gets the slightest hint that your worried he won't be interested because he probably wants a girl who's not shy, or scared of him. So just because your being yourself, while you have a bad stomach ache, or really bad butterflyness, he will get that your you, and he will like that. After going on more dates with him, you won't have those butterflies. It's wonderful. lol. ♥♥![:
When your on you first date witht he crush, just be yourselfff! Because when he gets the slightest hint that your worried he won't be interested because he probably wants a girl who's not shy, or scared of him. So just because your being yourself, while you have a bad stomach ache, or really bad butterflyness, he will get that your you, and he will like that. After going on more dates with him, you won't have those butterflies. It's wonderful. lol. ♥♥![:
I really agree with populargrl about heather
Thank you Alexa that someody acually litsens to me and agrees with me! Alexa what if Heather lied and just said that to sem cooler or something like that
Ya i agree with you about what you had said about Heather lied or wants to be cooler.
I think heather dont have nothin to say now cause she didnt say nothin back!
P.S are u popular talor
Ya i am popular but my name is Alexa!!!!!!!!!!
ya i am popular but my name is alexa!!!
I'll just talk about the stuff they like. And be honest with them.
On my first date with my BF I talk about stupid things like embaressing moments because i can laugh at myself and he can do the same so it's all good.Just be yourself and everything will go smoothly.
your name is Alexa just keep it talor cause Talor is a better name Alexa is a ugly name (no afence)
Ok then my name can be Taylor 4 you.........
xoxoxoxo
Alexa a.k.a Taylor
Never been on a date before, but i still hoping i have my first one soon
Never been on a date before, but i still hoping i have my first one soon
Never been on a date before, but i still hoping i have my first one soon
well basiclly first im nervous then i calm myself by cometting something nice about the guy like nice shoes and maybe the boy would say something nice back to me and thats what really calms my jitters down
Hi ummm.... If I were to go on a date, I`m sure I would be nearvous at first but when the date started going then I would just start having fun and not worrying about what he thinks of me. Just be yourself. And check out my blog and webshow for more tips. My webshow is www.ohwow.weebly.com and my blog is www.k8lynh.blogspot.com . Trust me, we are sooo funny and we have polls on the show and we do things like stand in the mall and sing the Barney theme song to people. Check us out.
Love,
K8lyn and Justine:)
Hi ummm.... If I were to go on a date, I`m sure I would be nearvous at first but when the date started going then I would just start having fun and not worrying about what he thinks of me. Just be yourself. And check out my blog and webshow for more tips. My webshow is www.ohwow.weebly.com and my blog is www.k8lynh.blogspot.com . Trust me, we are sooo funny and we have polls on the show and we do things like stand in the mall and sing the Barney theme song to people. Check us out.
Love,
K8lyn and Justine:)
I just chew gum! And just be myself.
wat up people how r u email me sometime
I do a lot of yoga so I meditate do a few poses,and get in my happy place or think he is probably nervious to.Then again I just be myself I also think if he really likes me he will try to understand.It will be fun unless you have an LOL moment but to me its even funnier it really depends.
Hey! Its Gwen here! f i were on my frist date i would just talk like he is my Best Friend. Also if we had nothing to talk about ~witch is bad~ i would just laugh or say something random to get us on a subject. or smile :)... i love smiling :D.. Also i really like this on guy but im scared to ask him out. But if i had da guts dats wat i would do :)
i stay myself. if a guy doesn't like that then he is no good.
For my first date i was super nervous. But me and my boyfriend know each other so well, that we werent that nervous after the first minute. the Key thing is to talk about things that u would mostly talk about. Or talk about the inside jokes that u guys have. that is a good way to break the ice. Usually he would make fun of me becuase of my "double life." and i would make fun of his "drug dealing job." its either talking about our inside jokes or having akward silences. and u NEVER want to have one of those.
I'm just like Gwen because I text the guy I like but I'm afraid to ask him out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Message to Dylan and Cole:
Guys I know you ask "What do girls talk about all night?"
Well,
To answer your Question I have to say...well...Guys!Most of the times we talk about guys well there you go and guys I gotta tell ya that I'd love to talk about the stuff you do, I meen video games ice cream come on AWESOME,I don't get why other girls don't like those things anyway there you go...AGAIN..hi hi.Oh!and m mag I almost forgot my dream date would be to go to a theme park and flip on trampolines and roller coasters oh! and ICE CREAM let's not forget ice cream!
If he ask me to dinner i would say no, i always wanted to go to the amusement park or the water park or the beach. I'm really nervous if there was just the two of us. But if he's a really, really, real cutie. I would just calm down if he hold my hand.
heather my 6 year old little cusin read that i can not belive you did that
if i were in tha situation~
wel i always hang out with guys so best thing is make up jokes yeah theres more things but jokin around s the BEST~
OMG! DATES! BOYS! If ur under 16 u shouldn't even be talking about how to get rid of first date jitters. I'm 11 and I've never been on a date or had a boyfriend in my whole life and I'm okay with that. There r some 5 year olds (like my sister) who say they already have a BF . Take my advice, it's alot better being single because u have the freedom 2 do almost anything.It also shows your independent and your perfectly happy without a boy in your life(except for daddy,LOL)
Hi! I'm Julia ! I wrote yesterday ,but I barely read what heather wrote. I think she's a bad word I wont say or write. I agree with Populargrl .
i drink water.the cold water cools you down
OMG WHAT IS UP WIT VALENTINES DAY STUFF!!! i bearly broke up wit my bf and its driving me nuts cuz its valentines this and that and sooner or l8r he will want 2 get bk wit me b4 or on v-day cuzz he still liks me ITS DRIVIN ME NUTS!!!!!!!!
i would take a deep breathe snd hope my first words wouldn't be that bad. then i'll try not to look in his eyes because i might puke!!
I JUST HAVE TO HEATHER IS REALLY SICK.
P.S. IHOPE HEATHER READS THIS BECAUSE SHE'S A PIG,SHE'S TRY TO ACK COOL, AND SHE'S NOT. DO YOU AGREE?
~I don't agree with Julia Rios because i'm only 11 and i want a BF and ten guys like me in my school and more guys too.~
I would just be myself and talk about personal stuff like family and friends. ANd after dating for two weeks i would kiss
Well....i've never had my first date but......i'll just be myself!
That always works for me!
I HAVE NEVER HAD A FIRST DATE,BUT I WANT A BOYFRIEND SOOOO BAD.I DON'T KNOW WHY GUYS DON'T ASK ME.IM HOT.I HAVE STRAIGHT HAIR.CONTACTS.HOT CLOTHES.EVERYTHING A GUY LOOKS IN FOR A GIRL.AND I EVEN HAVE A FUNNY PERSONALITY.AND ALSO A GREAT ONE AT THAT
-LOVE A FAN-
i never had my first date and if i did i would just think of something to distract me from him so that i can calm down and stop blushing so much! its so embarrassing! its really hard not to blush and studder in front of your crush! lol!
1.I would get really nerves 2.I would try to go for it 3.I probibly go out whith him 4.If he says no i probibly woud be over him in a flash THANKS M GIRLS!!!
1.I would get really nerves 2.I would try to go for it 3.I probibly go out whith him 4.If he says no i probibly woud be over him in a flash THANKS M GIRLS!!!
ok i need help with this 2 this mon. since we dnt have school im goin to the movies with my bf and hes a 7th grader but im only a sixth grader and im scared he mite try to kiss me if he leans over to kiss me what do i do
i need help im goin to the movies with my bf this weekend and hes 13 and im 11 im afriad at the movies he'll try to kiss me if he leans ovr to kiss me what do i do
WOW I DO CARE
wen I hav my first date I will maybe just make jokes and flirt sometimes flirting helps
My 1st date was with my cousins friend and all I did was keep on watching tv, drinking water, re-doing my make up, and checking my clothes. It was really fun in the end though and was ttly worth it!
KEEP WATCHING THE SUITE LIFE ON DECK!
The first date, I'm pretty much always with friends, so it works out because we all get along pretty well. My friends bring their dates while I bring mine, and we have a blast.
what i do to get over the first date jitters is just be myself! dont lie, cuz if your planning on dating this guy, lying is your one way ticket to him breaking up with you (that is if its something major). if he offers you to hang out with him that he likes to do, give it a try. even though your heart races when you see him, try to ignore them and do things you'd normally do. if he likes you, it'll be for who you are, and not what you look like, or what you say you do, or anything else, just you!
I've never been on a date before but I would crack some jokes and try to make some some physical contact such as, play with his hair, feel his muscles,and etc.Also just be yourself and don't make small conversation it always leads to akward silence.
a way to beat the first date jitters with a hot person is just be your self, and if somehing bad happens dont freak just try to go with it or always bring some extraw clothes, and when the kiss comes dont worry about it just try not to let it go to far cause it could get you in HUGE TROUBLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
AT MY FIRST DATE WE WENT TO THE MOVES AND HELD HANDS
i had some wet sex and now hes the father of my baby
my first date was actually when i was 13 and we had sooooo much fun, we laughed and went to the movies and in the end we kissed during the end of the movie and we are still going out!!!!!!He is the best. Luv u Cameron!!!!!!!!!!
oh and by the way!!!!!! EWWWWWWW SICKO!!!!!!! that person who wrote on the thingy before mine is sooo sick!!!!!! How old are you btw????? 40???!!!!! btw i know that is probably not true, BUT STILL YOU ARE GROSS. m girls, dont you agree?
im 9
Debby Ryan if that is u will u be my bff.u rock on suite life on deck i love that show if u r Debby Ryan wright me back pleas and say this is to andie so i now it is to me
my first date was in second grade and i was 9 years old and i have known this guy sence i was three and i just started walking and now we r still together and im 10 and for v-day he got me a 40 dollar bear and it was as big as me...!!??
one i said i just started walking one i was three
one i said i just started walking one i was three
watch some tv read a book play a game before the date and dont eat as much before the date that way if u think u will have to barf u wont have anything to barf up. well good luck people.
oh btw Kiki, you are such a liar, just trying to get attention. Hehe, good one.
btw kiki, you are such a liar!!!!!! You really got me at first!!!! hehe, good one!!!!!
i would on date at a movie our go out to dinner our just hanging out and talk.
if i go on my first date i will go to the movies are go out to eat are just hang out and talk.
This won't help but ido it...............SCREAM
what i did on my first date was talk to him find out what he is like if he doesnt sound like a good guy i would break up with him but if he sounds like a good guy stay with him forever if he starts to lean in to kiss you then give him a quick kiss not like one of those long ones anyways good luck.
idk i havent had a first date b4 but i think it would help 2 scream b4 the date and maybe turn ur radio or ipod on and dance
how do i make a conversation thing on m chat?
I'm not dating yet but 4 a 1st date I really want to go 2 Lagoon! I bet it would be sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo FuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuN!
I remember I was so nervous for my first date. I took a really long bath and used fragrance to smell pretty, something that is calming when you smell. (Like Hibiscus.) I basically just cracked some simple jokes, and talked about things he might of liked, like bands, or if he's a laid-back guy, video games.
kikimin, u r the nastiest. are u insine
First date, I was SO nervous for my first date. but the guy I went out with only cared about me being myself, so I wore what I was conformable in, which is a nice pair of skinny jeans and a regular all Canadian girl shirt. When we got to the movies he was stunned and said ''you are one special girl with you're converses''
So be you're self!
AAAAAAH!♥
Im not dating yet, but i remember im better than amy p.s if amy is reading she is the grossest person i ever met she thinks she is popular but shes not, and katrina you suck
i cant date until i am 16! but when i do date i will try to asct myself around the boy im crushin on!!!!(:
i cant wait to date! but i have to be 16 2 date!!
but when i go on a date with my crush i will try to act myself!!!!!
My first date was the best. but for those of you who didn't have your date your missing out!!!!!!! All i did was say all the wrong things about him he would correct me and BAM! We lived happily ever after
I would just remember to be myself. And if he doesn't like me for me then thats his problem!!
Well , when im on a first date , or if i was on one....I Would calm my self down by talking to my date and asking him what he would like to do , Morinlikly , he would say i dont know what woudl you like to do...And i would say , Well , lets a have a romantic time and sit under the stars , on a clear beautiful night.And i would wait for him to hold me hand. And then .... Later on , when he would walk me home , or drive me. I Would give him a hug . And we would kiss befor i go in the house.
And he would say good night . and walk home . then i would call him the next day , and tell him the date was wonderful and i had a great time.
HI.
i wear hight hills , and a stylish dress i put make up and try to catch my crushs fav subject ... for a date i like to go to cinema or to his house to have diner or even maybe to circus....on v-day i like to go dating but not all the time..sometimes i have a sleepover party with my bff!!! how do you like it ?
rate please what i do .
1-extrimly nice!
2-nice
3-cool
4-not much
5-boring
6-sillies thing i ever heard !
thanks
P.S sorry if i write with erors :(
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HI:]
Emily here is my rating : 1-extrimly nice!
i thing u are right the most imoprtaint thing to know is his fav subject ...
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